Hi oldboy,

Your love stories have each caused you unspeakable pain and I certainly understand why you’d be angry. Your last two relationships, gosh, it’s hard to even put into words what I want to say about them. You find out that you’re going to be a father but are then told that you’re not needed after all. I find it cruel on so many levels and wish it didn’t happen. And as for your most recent relationship, I can almost feel your excitement at knowing you’ll be seeing this lovely woman whom you haven’t had contact with for some time, and also your pain when she abruptly cancels on you. It’s disappointing and confusing.

It’s amazing (not in a good way) how deeply other people can hurt us. I’m so sorry you’re on this rollercoaster again.

B

P.S. Your English is far better than “understandable”. 🙂