Dear Anita,

Also I would like to celebrate Cali Chica NC/NA today – one month!.

According to our conversations, I feel that this is a one month celebration of not acting aggressively towards my husband, thinking before I speak, seeing him as my partner, whom I love and trust – and don’t attack.  No Attack.  that is NA.

Attacks come in many forms, subtle aggressions, sometimes attacks come from not doing – but not doing.  Not doing what matters, appreciating, loving, and taking efforts to remain calm.