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I’m just not okay with him commenting in front of me when he could be keeping his comments to himself. I’ve told him this before, but he said it just has to do with insecurities which I should figure out myself and that he’s just someone who bluntly says things out loud.

Is it really though? It probably is in a sense, but mainly I’m getting at how disrespectful I find it. We’re not on the same page here. I’m trying to communicate and voice my thoughts, but he’s not getting it and I don’t know how else to go at it

I have a problem whenever people excuse bad behavior as “that is who I am.”  Behavior can be changed.

Are you willing to stay with someone who won’t change their behavior that is so disrespectful to you?

Mark