Dear lisa:

It is possible that the part of you that decided long ago, “I will never let myself get trapped in a relationship” has been making sure all along, for four or five decades since the decision was made, that indeed the decision is kept. It may be that no matter what dating strategy you consider, the child in you who made the decision will make sure it is kept.

If you examine your dating/ relationship history, do you see this decision being dominant in all your choices in the context of dating and relationships, all through the years, with every man?

anita