Dear Rai:

If it is a relatively short holiday and she should be back to her daily routine in a week or a few weeks, I would wait until she returns, maybe a week after she returns. If you communicate with her by writing, make it short, simple, clear and direct. Give her the evidence, or where she can locate the evidence herself. Don’t add anything that is unnecessary to add.

If you want to post a draft of such a letter here, I will be glad to give you my input/ suggestions.

anita