Hi lindsey,

One thing that helped me was imagining that certain outcomes happened because I did them ON PURPOSE!

So in your journal you could write, “In preparation for being a truly single person at last, I cleverly handled myself so the manager would “dump” me. Once I tricked him into thinking it was his decision (to spare his feelings) I felt such a sense of relief that I cried in the bathroom thanking The Goddess he would never fall in love with me.”

You can have fun with this! And the best part is don’t be surprised if certain people are impressed and surprised by your new Victory Aura!

Best,

Inky