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There have been underlying concerns since December, when I decided to move out of my apartment. The landlord said she was going to evict me if I didn’t stop taking care of a bunch of stray cats that lived out back (the cats I started taking care of because the previous landlord took care of them, and then she just up and left, so I had been taking care of them for three years and then one day in December got a note on my door saying that I would be evicted if I didn’t stop feeding them.) I tried to talk to her but she just said “Just ignore them and they’ll go away” which obviously isn’t the case, so for a few weeks in December I was crushed as I tried to figure out a place to take these cats because I wasn’t going to watch them suffer through the winter. I finally found a woman to take them, so I’ve been trying to trap these cats since December, and I’m down to one cat left. Anyway, that has been a very stressful situation, but I am wondering if I have homebuyer’s remorse with this house and it is taking its toll on me. There’s no rush to get into the house because my lease isn’t up until the end of April, so I have time to get everything situated, but I keep feeling like I might have made a mistake or something and that has made itself snowball into panic and anxiety.