Dear lindsey:

As a manager, being in a leadership  position of some kind in the company, he shouldn’t get sexually involved with a co worker even if she hits on him!

I sure hope you forgive yourself for getting involved with him, let that shame you feel go out the window. You’ve been having a difficult time for a long time, it is no wonder that you looked for someone to make you feel better. It is only human to look for someone to hold you, to make you feel safe.

I will be away from the computer and back in about 12 hours. Feel free to keep  posting, expressing your feelings. If you do, I will read and reply to you when I am back.

anita