It wasn’t a pleasant experience at all. In fact, I feel like his family and him (my boyfriend) kinda want me to be like that girl. I’m not sure why it’s just how I feel. I was raised by independent and honest women, I myself am that way. I do not kiss ass or baby people to get them to like me, never have never will. And by god I will not baby my boyfriends ego! The brothers girlfriend we will call her Sandy, she MOTHERS the brother (her boyfriend). I am not going to do that in any of my romantic relationships, that is a complete turn off for me.