Dear Anita,

Well, I am not sure if I call that unethical behavior – as he denied everything and no physical boundary was crossed ever. I can say that it’s his way of therapy and I always had a choice to leave. If I would not have liked his therapy style I would have left but I didn’t. My regret is, wish I could have more open decision with him regarding my feelings around him and when I did bring up anything that suggested that he is also interested in me instead of plain denial we should have explored together on why I felt that etc? He was not afraid to lie, that’s for sure.

I felt very hurt and alone dealing with these rejection emotions and that’s not how therapy should be all the time. Some part of therapy it is needed to grow. But the client always has a choice to continue, so I blame myself too as I kept going back. I always had a choice but the attachment was so strong on my end that I couldn’t.

Thanks-

Sona