I really like your observation. I am going to think about this for a few days.

I’m worried to talk about it because after awhile I didn’t fight it anymore and I think most will see that means it was consensual.

The first time it happened (with the first family member) ended that day. They never tried to do it again, I was very young at this point probably 5 or 6.

The second time it happened was with two other family members one 6 months younger than me and one 3 years older than me, by that time I was 11 and that continued to happen maybe for a year or 6 months I just know it happened maybe 3 other times. Sorry if that was confusing it didn’t keep happening for 8 years the first time it happened I was 6, and then stopped. Didn’t happen again til I was about 11 and continued maybe that year my memory is foggy because of everything.