People wake up!  When someone hurts you and they have the decency to leave you alone, then let it go.  When a dog bites you, the first time it’s the dogs fault.  The second time it is all you if you approach that same dog.  People pull yourselves together.  People that hurt you are not going to stay around to watch you moan about it.  The thrill was inflecting the pain not watching you suffer, they have no interest in viewing the sadness in your eyes and you pointing out their faults.  Pick people with real empathy for others and people that make you feel good about yourself and always looking out for your better good.  I someone doesn’t see the real you then they need to be REAL gone.