Hi Anita,

I think you’re right – this in-between stage is definitely causing increased anxiety and stress – it’s not healthy for me. Next time I see him in person I will be sure to clarify and say the final words. I like your analogy of the flower picking, that is definitely what it feels like I am doing. From this point forward, I will be sure to clarify things so we can both move on with our lives peacefully and without as much stress and anxiety.

Lillian