Hi Ai,

Cultural traditions are very strong. It sounds like it was OK for him to be modern and independent when he was young, but now that he’s older…

It sounds like he wants you to break up.

Would he marry you if you said, “YES! In fact I will move across the world and have our children live in poverty if it means being with you!”..?

I suggest you cut bait and fairly immediately get in a serious relationship with a new person if you want kids.

Best,

Inky