Dear Amy:

I think that the “comparison trap” you wrote about, ex., comparing your weight to your friend’s, wanting to be thinner than her,  is connected to what you shared Sept 2016, more than 2.5 years ago:

“Me and my boyfriend have been together for a bit and I still love him very much, however, I’ve come to realise that I’m not a big public displays of affection person and I don’t like being called ‘cute’ and those kind of things. I’m quite insecure still and I feel like I’m figuring out who I am”-

– do you think there is a connection?

anita