Dear Cali Chica:

I read your post before last (and the most recent) and it occurred to me that your mother claimed other people are jealous of her and of you when it was she who was jealous of others, very envious of others. She was  on a mission to show off and wanted you to join forces with her and show others. This is why she was angry that you .. forgot to tell your cousins about how much fun you had in the mall.

Back to the exercise if possible: how do you feel, little CC, when your mother said you are roaring lion at home and a scared lamb around others… what do you think she meant by it?

anita