Dear IpkR09:

Welcome back!

“I don’t know how to proceed”, you wrote. But reads to me that you have a good plan on how to proceed: “I, however, don’t want to rush things with him. I want both of us to know each other better and then think of anything further than dating”.

Your Dec 2018 plan regarding your sister was also a good plan: to “make sure she stays away from things that are important to me”, including your romantic relationship.

What is it that you are not sure about?

anita