Michelle,

I genuinely do appreciate your contributions and please know that I appreciated the offer of advice and I ‘in theory’ do want to work on that, but I suppose the wariness is just there. Having said that, what you mentioned previously seemed completely rational and understandable so I got paid today so about an hour ago I scheduled a session with my therapist for tomorrow to discuss it further and explore the things that you raised that have been swimming over and over in my mind since I read your post.

So am I correct in thinking you were an anxious/insecure attachment type…..like me….and now are a secure attachment type? You were able to change…or rather grow? I also read your advice to Kkasxo and will read those books your recommended as I like to read and gain new perspective. Also starting researching the house sitting options! Thanks you x