Gautam,

Only thing I know is if I let go of her, she’ll break.

I think that you have too little regard for her strength and resiliency.  We all go through trials and tribulations.  If we don’t face adversity then we cannot grow, become stronger, more independent, more self sufficient.

You put yourself in a position as the only one who controls her emotional well being.  I think that there is some co-dependency if you truly think that.

… I’ve promised her to not leave her when I saw her crying.!

Promises made under adversity (even if it is self imposed adversity) should not be held valid for they are not true and honest and authentic because of the circumstances.  Also promises are not forever for with time, circumstances change.

Mark