Dear Anita,

Separating truth from lies.  I absolutely agree.  That is the work I will do, I am prepared.

As per the second post, yes.  If I found that “the love she never had” it would bring contentment to her heart.  Fulfill her, give her what she lacked.  Have her live vicariously through me..

As we know the outcome was not that way..  If we brought her the X thing she lacked, she asked for Y.  If we thought about Y she said Y is filthy, go back to X.  And on and on.

I will wait for your reply to guide my thoughts/conversation.