Hi Joe

I think you have found the answer yourself, by stating that, “– because I hold myself at a really high standard“.   The humility in that is knowing that we are no better or worse, we are just different. It’s ok, maybe, to hold to YOUR high standards but believe it is just for you and not reflect on other people’s standards.  Accepting people for all their differences is a part of knowing that we are all evolving, and that no one is on the same ”level’ as we are.  When I see ‘bad’ things done by others I have discernment in knowing that I don’t choose that “bad” thing for me. The bad is only from my own beliefs, conditioning, opinion, or judgements and i try to remember that.  This allows everyone to ‘be’ who they choose. With the freedom to choose again, if it is not right.

Hope this helps.

Sal.