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So everyone has a tribe, it just takes some people a lot longer to find theirs, especially true when you don’t fit the cultural “norm” around you, whichever particular city/country you may be in. I know, since we have similarities here and in perspectives.
I know that I have a VERY unusual perspective on life. It shows up in my political views, in the events and causes I support and the way I view the world.
I did wonder from the tone of your messages that do you still want to be moving around so much with your work? Or would you prefer to stay in one city? It is really great that you have been and are so successful, I think that is inspirational to many people, but maybe your quest for your tribe is also about wanting more stability in your life in general? I could be wayyy off the mark here so please ignore if you dont think it fits your dituation.
Actually, your spot on. I had expected to be more settled by this age and yet there seems still to be more and more required of me. More travel, more relocations, more sacrifices. It’s essentially a primary law of leadership. “In order to go up, you have to give up. And in order to stay up, you have to give up even more”.