Anita,

I’m so tired.  I feel emotionally unwell.  I believe my fixation on M. is not the real problem here.  Am I ocd’ing on that to avoid the transition to divorce? I don’t know.  Besides being guilty of being a complete dirtbag, we both know he’s free to see whomever and it’s really not my concern.

I know it’s smart to stay out of the drama if he chooses to date different women at work. I don’t want my name associated with any of that.  So I’m definitely not saying anything to him or her or driving by his house or anything like that.

Lindsey