Dear Ly14:

Maybe I will be able to offer you something of value if I know more. Therefore I ask:

1. You wrote that he asked you to marry him, you said yes but your parents do not know yet and will disapprove. Do your parents know that you’ve been dating him for three years, do they disapprove of him as a boyfriend for you or as a husband, or both?

2. If you marry him, what will your financial situation be (“we do not have much money”)- do you have plans regarding work and income, housing and having your own children?

3. About how old are you and him and can you tell me a bit about your relationship history?

4. Are you currently living with your parents and what is your experience with your parents now and in the past?

5. Are you sometimes relaxed and “into him” when sexually active with him or is it always anxiety-filled for you?

– I will be back to the computer in a bit over an hour from now.

anita