Dear Gracie:

If he wouldn’t answer you, there is not much that you can do. Until he responds, if he does, we can look at what happened this month with him for clues as to “What does this mean?”.

We can also look at the past for clues- in Nov last year you had a beginning relationship that ended, “He admitted to me”, you wrote, “that he did not feel like the petty arguments we were doing was normal at the beginning of a relationship and it was bothering him…. He said the petty arguments were taking an emotional toll on him… I honestly think that the arguments were more my fault than his. I think I made a big deal out of nothing”-

– were there petty arguments in this recent month old beginning relationship as well?

anita