Hi that-girl-next-door,

I’m so confused about what your sister is actually angry ABOUT!

I do know this: It’s far easier for her to be in a “fight”/?/whatever you call it than it is to resolve the unresolvable with her husband.

I think you have become The Issue of Choice. Because it’s easier.

I’m sorry to say, but I myself and I would let HER call/text/message YOU. Drop the rope. See what happens.

She made a mistake marrying someone so much older. Now she has outgrown him and is embarrassed by it. It’s also easier to pretend everything’s “fine”.

Sounds like she simply bonded with a very dear friend. I’m actually glad she did it. I don’t think anything “happened”, I think she just needed a Soul Friend her own age.

Best,

Inky