There have been times (only really looked at in counselling) where I am asking myself why it was ok. For my birthday last year at dinner with another friend, he jokingly held a stance in an argument (was not a big fan of conflict).  After awhile of it, I had to leave the restaurant to calm down and had thoughts of going home at that point. He also even said that he likes “weak people”. Even questioning him on that he never gave a reason for that statement.

We wont be seeing each other over summer as the church group has ended, so I’m not too worried.