Hi Angele,

The question isn’t whether he is done with the marriage. The question is whether she is done with the marriage.

My dad had bought a house in Texas that my mom didn’t know about. She served him divorce papers after she found out. He was stunned. Infuriated. Confused. In his mind, if she never brought it up, he would have had his wife and family in one part of the country and his mistress (in Texas, if it makes you feel any better) in another (“for business” if she never found out). The “problem” was that SHE brought it up and SHE made the decision!

In your case, he only told her he was done AFTER she said something.

I think she should get her power back and get him served.

Best,

Inky

P.S. The 23 year old from Dallas will dump him for a wealthier guy.