Hi Valora, thanks for your reply.  The problem in my opinion is just what you framed.  He always worries about the future, when we were younger it was justified, but now that moment has passed and from an economic point of view now we are ok.  I try to enjoy this peaceful time, doing the things I love. He instead seems unable to not worry, he always says that having no children no one will take care of us … this makes me very sad because I live it as a veiled reproach since I never wanted children.  I have nothing against children, they are not the problem, I have no maternal instinct and I can’t help it.

I asked here on the forum because I have no one to talk to and I wanted to deal with other points of view, especially to see if I’m wrong to try to live without worrying about the future.  Thank you.

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