Dear Bonni_mor:

Welcome back. You  wrote that you caught him in sexual conversations with his ex March this year, but you wrote about those sexual exchanges with his ex February this year, in your previous thread. Did it happen in March as well?

Back in February, you expected a long distance relationship with him because, if I remember correctly, his plan was to move to New York, has his plan changed?

You wrote Feb: “my perceptions of him and our relationship have been thrown so off kilter that I cannot trust my judgment enough to believe he would’ve truly changed. I will always wonder. Once bitten, twice shy. I can forgive that he is human, but I will always consider that he has betrayed me”-

– what is the status on your perceptions of him and the relationship, your trust in your judgment, betrayal since February?

anita