Hi Peggy,

thank you for your contribution.

you seem to have misinterpreted what I have said. We are not using sex to fix the relationship. The romantic relationship is fixed, we are experiencing sexual problems, which is more a business rooted in the mind. Not only an emotional one.

Sexual challenges are a big thing, but I think it’s not the end of a relationship because it can be navigated. I’m just expressing that it has become difficult to try and navigate it because we both feel under a lot of pressure to perform.

Yes, it may be medical. He hasn’t been for a check up yet.

I am willing to accept that he is not the right person for me, but I truly don’t believe it right now. We really are great together otherwise.