Hi Kylee,

Everyone who has posted has said in one way or another that your judgement was fine and they agreed with your decision.  You were dissatisfied with this relationship and you ended it.  There is no need whatsoever to see his side of things if he was not willing to commit to you.  You weren’t getting what you wanted from him because he hadn’t let go of his past relationships and, therefore, he was not free to be with you.  Why do you need to feel guilty for saying as much?

Every successful relationship relies on open and honest communication.  Just because one man can’t deal with your honesty doesn’t mean that the next one won’t be able to.

Face your fear and embrace being alone.  Spend time on your hobbies and your friends, learn a new skill, discover some interesting facts about your local environment etc.  There are endless possibilities.  Learn to love your own company.

You will heal, you will have other relationships, but the most important relationship of all is the one that you have with yourself.  Think about this.  Overthinking comes from doubting yourself.  Learn to trust your instincts – it’s what they are there for.  For the most part, they do a fine job of keeping us safe.

Peggy