Anita, yes, I am ready for the love relationship of my life. I like him so much and there is nothing I would like more than to be with him and see where it goes … but, as you said, I don’t know what’s in his heart and mind (he might think that of me too, right? ) and this is what keeps me in the obsession that I’m in… not knowing how/ if I should approach him or letting things unfold naturally and hoping he’ll make a move. In our 2 year work relationship we have definitely become more familiar with each other, sharing more things and getting to know each other better. So, I am hoping he’ll get more comfortable and confident to ask me out on a romantic date… but, that’s something uncertain and I hate not being in control of things. I feel powerless and clueless in my situation :((