Dear Cali Chica:

“I don’t want to be super anymore.. Maybe it would be nice to eat lunch once in a while”- it would be. I think Cali Chica wants to rest, to… trust that it will be okay if she rests, that the jackhammer will not start drilling into her head if she rests.

You have to have a couple of  years of an easy going job, the way you would like it, before having children, before thinking about starting any kind of business or practice.

Probably a good idea then what I suggested above (“The economic base of your future home will be his solid job)”, have your husband take on a good job for him that will give you the possibility to rest. That tradition you told me about, the new mother resting and being taken care of- you should have it before you get pregnant, due to… the untraditional jackhammer factor.

anita