Dear Nichole:

When you were a child you were definitely neglected and abused. It is not possible for any child to not take it personally. A child automatically loves her mother and her father, and her older siblings and when that love is ignored, or betrayed, that is personal and it hurt like hell.

Question: did you think about calling your younger brother to help you move tomorrow? (Was there a fight between the two of you that ended with him not wanting anything to do with you?)

anita