Anita,

K and I were talking and he stated he is not ready to start a relationship yet.  He also stated that I wasn’t divorced yet.  That’s were I was coming from with the statement.  I also asked a male friend and he said that he would wait until a woman was divorced before dating her.

Could part of him being unreliable is because he’s not ready to date?

Yes I will be flying and staying at my parents home.  I’m excited to see family.  I think everything will be fine so far.  My ex will not be there.

Lindsey