Dear Lindsey:

Most important is that you will not see your ex in Florida. Be ready for very-hot-and-humid there, as you know, I am sure.

“Could part of him being unreliable is because he’s not ready to date?”- no. Let’s say he’s ready to date. For a while he may be so excited and looking for a lot of your company, but after a high of sorts, he will be back to his flakey ways, not calling or texting, not following up on his plans and so forth.

anita