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I believe we all need to date the full four seasons/one year before even considering having such a commitment especially if you are younger than 40 and less than several serious relationships.  There is no rush.  Relationships offer the opportunity to emotionally grow, to learn about your wounds and hot buttons that your mate pushes… and to heal from that, to deeply get to know about yourself.  See this as an opportunity to learn what about your ex draws you back to thinking about him.  Break it down.  Make a list.  Make a Plus and Minus list about your current BF on paper.  Plus consider couples counseling (and not with his own therapist).

Mark