Hi Anita,

Thanks for your guidance, you may be right about my wife’s mental state, perhaps she will pursue more therapy once she is stabilises herself in her new relationship, especially if the root of her behaviour doesn’t change. I see her being extremely kind and caring to this new man, perhaps all she needs is a person which fits her better.

Regarding the kids, I belive my wife has been a good mother to them and has brought them up well. I do not want to take sole custody and remove them from her. I would want to work towards joint custody.