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Dear Anita,
It is a bit hard to describe, but here is a very simplified attempt:
Me: “Hey, I was missing you and I really wanted to talk to you more, why didn’t you call?”
Him: “I did call once! And I was busy!”
Me: “But you definitely had time during breaks, or before you went to bed. You didn’t even read the messages I sent you.”
Him: “I did text you, what more do you want?”
Me: “I told you I wanted more contact while you were away and I think you had time for it.”
Him: “You are terrorizing me, I really don’t want to talk to you anymore” and walks away.
Me, following: “Please don’t go, try to understand me too, I was waiting and I just cannot understand how you wouldn’t have more time for me.”
Him: “F**k you, you are such an egoist, leave me alone”
Me, crying.