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Hi Emilia,
This is ME!!!
A palm reader long ago said, “You’re an introvert, and in the old days would have lived in a cave alone (by choice!!), but the modern world has actually made you more extroverted than you naturally are.”
There is nothing wrong with us. It’s just that our culture bombards us with such constant messages that we second guess ourselves.
Make yearly pilgrimages to see your friends (or have them visit you), and love the hell out of your boyfriend and family.
Also, volunteer (i.e. church/your local community center/etc.). Being busy while surrounded by other people may feel strange, but eventually you will find people you resonate with. Or they will find you!
Best,
Inky