Dear Sadiya;

You are welcome. Reads to me that you are quite clear about what you are about, what your husband is about, and that you do have a plan for four years from now. Keep that plan in mind and work now toward this plan in any way you can: helping your younger daughter with her struggle (you are welcome to post about it here, maybe it will help), saving money if possible for you, perhaps look for employment or better employment for yourself, taking classes maybe so to be able to make more money for yourself in four years from now.

And do post here anytime you want to.

anita