Dear S:

Regarding him loving you for 15 years, I was suspicious of that claim the moment I read it. During more of a decade when you were not yet his girlfriend, maybe he liked you and was attracted to you, once in a while thinking about you in a romantic or lustful way. At times thinking about other women that way.

“He hasn’t set me free yet!”- he’s not good at setting people free- he is yet to set himself free from his mother.

Better you don’t wait for him to set  you free. That is a powerless position- why does he have the power to set you free (he doesn’t)- and you don’t have that power?

At this point, not only is he not a powerful man, he is not even a good man. A good man would have answered your texts and come clean with you.

Why don’t you send him a message: contact me for a real conversation by (a particular time/ day). If you don’t, I will consider our relationship over.

The wait for that time and day (no longer than 24 hours).

anita