Dear blkhwkdwn1:

Now I understand something about the YouTube guy you watched. I understand; you are not happy about the engagement being broken and the cooling off of their relationship. You wish her nothing but happiness and for “them both a long and happy life together”.

I like this what you expressed here: “I would still like to have those moments with other women”. I like it that you moved on, and “Let her go” after all!

And I like what the message of the youtube guy: “being kind to people that deserve your kindness… Not everyone deserves your kindness… If they can’t respect you then … they don’t deserve your kindness”.

I think I understand you now. Let me know if I am missing something.

anita