Dear Ana:

You are welcome. The problem in my mind is not so much that you lied when he asked about whether you hooked up with the guy, but that you continued to talk to the guy while in a relationship with your boyfriend, while the guy “had been making.. sexual comments the whole time”.

Meaning, you were in a relationship with your current boyfriend and at the same time, you were talking to another man who was making sexual comments to you, allowing the man to make those sexual comments.

See the problem here?

anita