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October 1, 2019 at 8:57 am
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Inky
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Hi Kylee,
It’s not you. You found an empty condom box. Clearly, it’s not you.
The boy is gaslighting you. That’s when his version of reality doesn’t match actual Reality. Then YOU think you’re the one who’s crazy. Clue Phone! He WANTS you to think you’re crazy!
What I, Inky, would do is to date other guys and not notify him. Then when (WHEN!) HE calls YOU and asks if you’re seeing anyone, or if you guys are in a relationship say, “Oh, sure babe!” and carry on being awesome.
Drop the Rope,
Inky