Dear Kylee:

You are welcome. I think you are too scared to say the wrong thing, too scared to lose him. You are not calm enough to look at the situation as it is. If fear is like fog in your vision, what you see/hear is a collection of small parts of the big picture (a condom box, a messy room, the words he says), but you don’t connect those parts and see the whole picture.

Too much fog/ fear.

I can help you see the whole picture, if you want. Here is my suggestion: make a record of all  interactions between you and him from the latest: time and place you met or communicated and a shot summary of what was said and what was discussed (if anything) about the next meeting/ communication.

And keep the record going, every communication, every meeting, a sort of journal, and post it here. I will then give you my input.

anita