anita,

Yes – the only thing I would have added is perhaps not only the caregiver role – but that I am also going through something large, so she has to respect that as well.

Tonight – okay, I will celebrate me. That being said, I’ll go curl my hair!

Yes – what they lost or what they are mourning is not me and my pain – it is more so them saying “our life is so bad, what did we ever do to deserve this.

In your experience, after going NC, is it normal to sometimes feel that you haven’t even done that?