Dear Thomas:

If this man you posted about in your previous threads, starting February this year, then I agree with him that you do indeed have romantic feelings for him (“he’s got into his head that I’ve got feelings for him”).

You wrote: “I tried to explain I meant more as a friend/ person”- I think you were dishonest with him when explaining that to him,just like you were dishonest with him March 23, when you messaged him: “I certainly don’t think you’re stringing me along or giving me false hope for that matter either. I honestly think you’ve gotten the wrong idea about me and misunderstood me big time mate. Ultimately I think it’s important that we listen to each other, are both  open mined & honest with each other”.

Later, April 19, you posted: “I feel like you’re stringing me along and messing with my head, one minute you want to be mates and then next you don’t”.

From having read what he messaged you in previous threads, reads to me that he was honest and patient with you, that he understood you well,  and it is you who didn’t listen to him and wasn’t honest with him. I think that you do have strong romantic, way-beyond-friendship-feelings for him.

anita