Dear Cali Chica:

No worries, if I feel offended by something you write, I’ll ask you about what you meant by this or that, checking to see if my feeling is valid. And you are welcome to do the same!

Borderline Personality Disorder, yes, makes sense. Yes, I see that.

New Year Resolutions- used to long ago, not for many years. But if I was to come up with one for 2020.. I can’t. What making new year resolutions meant to me in the past was: from this moment on (Jan 1, 00:01 AM) I will be good; from this magical number 00:01, 1/1, all ones, I will not do this (bad) thing and/ or I will do this good thing. Can’t go back to that kind of thinking. But for you, a new year resolution may mean something different.

anita